Most people, believe or not say that hetrosexual female and male can never be truly friends. At one time or another, something happens.
I used to think that was all bull! I mean, take me(not a normal person, but there you go) in my early childhood, I grew up surrounded by boys, but I knew them as the smelly people who like to fight and kick. As I have grown, I always seem to have at least one guy who is always there. If you a girl, you know what I mean. That guy who you can talk about other guys with like he aint a guy! That guy who will back you, whatver the matter! It never occurred to me, when I was younger that being friends with a guy meant somehow you like each other and are going to discover it later in your teenage years or in your 30s when you discover you are with the wrong person...the person you are actually meant to be with is the one that has been with you during your lifelong journey!!
...Breathe...
I mean, most girls always say that ' I prefer guys than girls' some of these girls don't even mean as friends, right? They'd rather be in a group of guys that wanna sleep with them than girls who just for sleepovers!
Now I think people don't really know the difference. Your ex-boyfriend suddenly becomes your best friend.( I'm hypocritically speaking here) I mean you just because there's no longer chemistry, does that mean, you can be 'best buddies' with someone who techinally if you were with him (in a relationship)before, then were you close friends right? Then whatever broke you up, good or bad, can u still have that bond, tht trust. Is it real trust, or just being civil for the sake of not wanting to 'hate' each other...This really baffles me!
Then there's a person you meet, then you become friends...As far as you know, there's no chemistry...but how can you be so sure that this person(now your besties!)is letting you call him/her friend because that's the only way, they will stay close to you...
Can(hetrosexual) girls and boys be friends with nothing ever happening, or is this another one for the movies?
FatBlackMidget©
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