Thought 12: Expectations, Expectations...

I've tried not to. Really I have. I've tried to think that people always let you down, it doesn't matter whether you prepare yourself for it or you don't. There's always going to be someone that let's you down. There's always going to people that doe not live up to your expectations...its the way life is, right ?

Why can't people simply do exactly what their current occupation in your life, be it friendship or otherwise...if you are a friend, be a friend...at all times...if you a husband or wife...be that, all times!

But that is just wishful wishing isn't it? Its what a perfect world, if there is such a place would be, right?

Because at the end of the day, you yourself have expectations that other people wish you to meet. And many times you fail. I fail. We all fail. Does that mean we give up on expecting things. Does that mean we live our lives expecting to be let down all the time. Or do we welcome the hurt and pain, when we get disappointed...when people don't live up to standards...
Or do we set expectations that are too much for one to live up to...do we consider what it means to living up to someones expectations...

Its a puzzling thing...
is there a solution?...
is there a need for a solution?...
is it one of those things that happen is life and you have to accept..but don't expect?

Is it even important ?